Ask Dr. Orloff
What do I do when men send me mixed messages about love?
Question: Dear Dr. Orloff
What do I do when my boyfriend sends me mixed messages about love?
Miami Beach, Florida
Answer: Dear Coco
It drives women crazy in a bad way when men give crazy making messages of ambivalence, pulling back, then offering crumbs of amazing passion and attention. It is important to communicate clearly about your needs, set clear boundaries, and treasure yourself. A man must adore and worship you. You are a jewel and deserve nothing less. (The same goes for men when women are giving ambivalent messages.)
All the best,