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Are You a Physical Empath?
Empathic illnesses are those in which you manifest symptoms that are not your own. Physical empathy doesn’t have to overwhelm you. Now that I can center myself and refrain from taking on other people’s pain, empathy has made my life more compassionate, insightful, and richer.
To determine whether you’re a physical empath take the following quiz.
|Have I been labeled as overly sensitive or a hypochondriac?||Yes||No|
|Have I ever sat next to someone who seemed nice but suddenly my eyelids got heavy and I felt like taking a nap?||Yes||No|
|Do I feel uneasy, tired, or sick in crowds and avoid them?||Yes||No|
|Do I feel someone else’s anxiety or physical pain in my body?||Yes||No|
|Do I feel exhausted by angry or hostile people?||Yes||No|
|Do I run from doctor to doctor for medical tests, but I’m told “You’re fine.”||Yes||No|
|Am I chronically tired or have many unexplained symptoms?||Yes||No|
|Do I frequently feel overwhelmed by the world and want to stay home?||Yes||No|
To calculate your results:
- If you answered “yes” to 1-3 questions you are at least part physical empath.
- Responding yes to 4 to 5 questions indicates you have moderate degree of physical empath.
- Answering 6 to 8 “yeses” indicates you have a certified physical empath.
This quiz is from The Empath’s Survival Guide by Judith Orloff MD
Many patients have come to me labeled “agoraphobic” with panic disorders, chronic depression, fatigue, pain, or mysterious ailments that respond only partially to medications or psychotherapy. Some were nearly housebound or ill for years. They’d all say, “I dread being in crowds. Other people’s anger, stress, and pain drain me, and I need a lot of alone time to refuel my energy.” When I took a close history of all these patients I found that they were what I call “physical empaths:” people whose bodies are so porous they absorb the symptoms of others. I relate because I am one. Physical empaths do not have the defenses that others have to screen things out. As a psychiatrist, knowing this significantly changed how I treated these patients. My job became teaching them to center and protect themselves, set healthy boundaries, and let go of energy they picked up from others. Discovering that you are a physical empath can be a revelation. Rest assured: You are not crazy. You are not a malingerer or hypochondriac. You are not imagining things, though your doctor might treat you like a nuisance. You are a sensitive person with a gift that you must develop and successfully manage.